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A Case of Courtship

A Case of Courtship

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May 01, 2024
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A Case of Courtship
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It’s an old, old tale

Boy meets girl

A Ring by Spring

The Steader Map to healthy sustainable families is

1. Get Married

2. Have Kids

3. Raise your kids to do the same

The details matter but that’s it.

All of those are solved problems except getting married.

Today’s transmission is a successful courtship case study along with some analysis from the steader chats.

Keys: young is better, be likable (girls), marry for potential (girls), find activities and venues where high quality people are being thrifty and down to earth, such as cheap housing at a selective college.

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